“Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they’re trying to find someone who’s going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.” Anthony Robbins
I can’t live without you!!
Aren’t these so often the words of young people newly in love. Take a moment to listen to those words – it’s all about ME.
“I want You to make me feel fulfilled, to make me feel worthwhile about myself”!
Stop putting yourself first and rather see how you can better love your partner if you want your relationship to last. This is called selfless love.
A relationship is like a bank account.
Have you ever been in overdraft on your bank account? You can’t keep on withdrawing without making any deposits. You have to keep your bank account in the black if you want to avoid huge bank charges. Same with a relationship, make sure the emotional “bank account” is always in the black. That way you can make some “withdrawals” as you do when you’re self-centered and selfish. But make sure to put in a “whole lotta love” to keep the account healthy. You want to avoid those hefty bank overdraft charges!